“Who are these people and how are we related?”!!
Being the next to the youngest child on both my mother and my father’s side of the family caused me to ask this question often as a young child and later in life. Always being the inquisitive one, I am the keeper of the historic documents and photos on my father’s side and some of the precious old pictures from my mother’s side. About twenty some years ago I began my quest of trying to visually create the “Family Tree”. I began when the technology age was expanding and there was software to capture the information that I had, in a beautiful format. I remembered I had spent hours entering data from a Stone cousin on my Dad’s side that had researched in the traditional way by finding ancestors through genealogy libraries around the country, 
About two weeks ago, I decided to once again go “on-line” with Ancestry.com and see how much it had changed. Wow! I basically recreated what I originally had before, plus much more with just a few clicks of a key. I was very impressed how information could be accredited with primary and secondary sources so easily. There are many ways to collaborate through sharing pictures, personal stories, and publications. I know there are other ways and there are genealogy clubs everywhere to build family trees as well as less expensive ways, but how could it be easier than from at home whenever you have the time.
My story is a common story: I grew up in the midwest on a farm. As with most early American families moving west my
ancestors were subsistent farmers, primarily and worked in the logging camps in the winter. The German and Swiss side of the family came as far as Ohio and stayed there for a couple of generations and then one family bravely sought their luck in Michigan about 60-70 years after statehood. They traveled several hundred miles north into the lower peninsula of Michigan by horse and carriage. They were carpenters as well as farmers, which was handy and established themselves in Benzie County. As their families grew they too, married and raised their families “down the road” and continued the carpenter trade as well as other vocations.
In the 50′s and 60′s most of my relatives lived in two areas of the county. That stayed that way for about three and four generations, then as families grew and opportunities expanded, they also began to relocated in Mi and other states.
To continue the story of my quest for more information about my family, I found one postcard, yes, one postcard with the Chicago address of my great grandparents. I was so excited, because my Dad and his brothers could only generalize about the location. When I found the address my curiosity was not satisfied. So about 5 years ago, I took a college friend and lake friend to Chicago in quest of this house. I located the address on Map Quest. We decided to go spent a couple of days in Chicago looking for the house and seeing if it still existed. Then go to the art museum and do a Frank Lloyd Wright tour. And who could have guessed it was also Venetian Festival that same weekend in Chicago! Wow! A plethora of things to do! Once in Chicago we got off the 90/94 Freeway and took a main street for several blocks north to get the feel of the area. It was very Bohemian and diverse now. I chuckled as a few streets we passed as we closed in on the location were coincidentally family first and middle names: Addison, Caldwell,Lincoln, and Irving. Once we arrived at Wilson Ave. in Lincoln Park my friends watched while I drove and managed the lights and traffic. We found the house! It was still there. The blocks to the east were now office buildings or 
Oh my gosh! Why would people want to live any place other than NW Michigan or move away from their family to some other place! Ha! And here I am, doing just that. I have been living for one year away from my family in NE Wisconsin. I thought that it would be more difficult than it has been or wonder when it will really dawned on me . I am fortunately only one car ferry trip or one long day’s drive away, so I have been back to see family and do business often. But the distance has put the mind into memory mode often of immediate family,grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins and second cousins which I guess is termed cousins once removed, I think. I told someone a few weeks ago it was so nice and surprising to have people recognize me when I was home. The excitement and new places to explore make up for the once knowing most people in the county because you are related to them or have had them or their children in the classroom. It is a luxury of familiarity that is absent once you relocate, but being able to go home periodically soothes those feelings.


